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Girls Want A Guy To Whom They Can Lose Control

June 14, 2011 2 comments

“If you want to date him, date him. If you want to date me, date me. Whatever you want,” I said to her.

“Damnit! Why is it always what I want?!”

At the time, these words made no sense to me whatsoever. Why wouldn’t she want to be free to make a decision? I know if I were in that situation, I would want it to be my choice.

The reason is simple. Women don’t want to be in control. Women want a man they feel comfortable enough to submit to. I know it doesn’t sound very politically correct, but let’s be honest – the truth isn’t always politically correct.

If I’d have said “You are my girlfriend. You and me are dating, exclusively,” she would have submitted, just because I told her to. As a great man once said “Girls just want to be taken.”

You might think to yourself, when I think about wrapping my arm around a girl, it feels strange, like I shouldn’t do it without permission. The thing is, when you wrap your arm around a girl and she doesn’t protest, she has given you her permission, by submitting. The girl is still capable of leaving, but she doesn’t, because she is enjoying herself. She wants to be taken.

Now when I talk about taking a girl, I don’t mean being violent or aggressive. I’m not talking about rape. What I’m really talking about is making a woman feel safe in your presence. A woman who knows you have the courage to step up and take her, understands that you have the courage to protect her.

There’s a classic story that you’ve probably heard or seen many times. The woman takes a man as a boyfriend, or they get married. She chips away at him, saying he shouldn’t play futsal so much, he shouldn’t go to the pub so much, he should come home when she calls him. He stops seeing his friends so much, he stops going to the pub so much. He quits the futsal league. Some people might call this being pussy-whipped. I just call it being a pussy. We all know what comes next. The woman leaves the man and says “You’re just not the man I married.”

What has happened here? The woman has tested the man, and he has failed. The man has lost control in the relationship. The woman can no longer let go of her control, and so she has to wear the pants. When a woman is forced to wear pants too often, she stops being a woman.

When you take control of a woman, she is free to be at her most feminine, and that is extremely liberating and exhilarating for both of you.

 

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Attracting Women By Being Spontaneous

June 10, 2011 No comments

When you’re trying to flirt with a girl, logical is the last thing you want to be. Logic is poison to sexual attraction because when you’re in a logical frame of mind, you’re perceiving objects and not people.

Conversely, the right amount of un-logic or nonsense can be just the ticket to attracting a beautiful girl. Why is that? If you talk a lot of nonsense to a girl, she can’t keep up. If she is trying to keep up, that means she is reacting to you. Her reactivity plus some enjoyable emotions equals her attraction to you.

If you’re starting out, it can be difficult to be illogical in conversation. For some of you, you might have a sense of humour that involves quoting from The Simpsons or Family Guy. That is a habit that does not serve you, because it can be alienating to those around you, and also because you’re using your memory instead of being creative.

So what can you do instead? Be spontaneous. Talk about the first thing that comes into your head. For some of you, this isn’t going to come naturally. I’d recommend talking to yourself or at your mirror for a while to try it out. Try talking for five minutes non-stop. When you get going, you will probably start talking absolute gibberish – that’s fine.

You might not have the balls to go up and start talking gibberish to a girl like that, but if you do, you will be amazed at the kind of crap you can talk to a girl and still have her interested in you. It might even make you wonder what is wrong with the girls that they still listen to you.

Another exercise you might like to try is walking around your room, and whatever object you lay your eyes on, you call it something it isn’t. For example, if you see a shirt you might call it a sea anemone. If you see a bowl you might call it paskavo. These kinds of exercises are for your mind what stretches are for your body. They free you from its usual constraints and allow you to be more creative and thus, more interesting, when you’re speaking to people.

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How To Get Physical With A Girl

June 6, 2011 No comments

Have you ever had a first date like this? You take the girl home and you think it’d be great if you could kiss her good night. Your palms start to get sweaty as you lean in. Then she turns her head forces you to kiss her cheek instead. What went wrong? And if it’s that much trouble to kiss her, how are you ever going to have sex with her?

You hadn’t touched the girl for the entire time, so when it comes time to kiss her, it’s built up so much in both of your minds that it makes you nervous. That’s why, it’s better to get physical as soon as possible. That way, when you kiss her it will feel natural – a natural progression. She will able to enjoy it much more, and she will like you more.

So how do you begin to get physical with a girl? The first thing to remember is that when a naturally physical person touches someone, there is always a purpose or a meaning to it. The purpose doesn’t have to be anything fancy, but I’ll give you some examples to illustrate.

The first time I tried to touch a girl in the club, my coach had told me how important it was. So I was having a conversation with this girl about the weather, then I remembered what he’d told me. So I stuck my hand out, put it on her shoulder and squeezed, all the while thinking “Why the fuck am I doing this?” Of course, the girl got a little weirded out and left soon afterward. That’s an example of how not to do this.

Let’s say you meet up with the girl in the mall. You give her a big hug and kiss her on the cheek, or even on both cheeks. You’re catching up and she tells you she spent Friday night alone on the couch watching re-runs of Friends. You say “Aw you poor kitten,” and pat her head or touch her cheek. All these things are normal and natural, and have a communicative purpose to them.

Remember, the point isn’t that you shouldn’t touch a girl unless you can think of a reason to do it. I don’t want any of you guys to take your pants off and think “Oh no! I can’t stick my dick in her because I don’t have a purpose!” This is just a guideline to how you can make your physical interactions with women more natural and smoother. The smoother it is, the less a woman has to think about it. The less she thinks, the more she enjoys herself, and the quicker you develop a physical relationship.

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How To Meet A Girl In A Nightclub When She’s In A Group

June 3, 2011 No comments

When you meet a girl in a nightclub, you’re almost always going to meet girls who are in a group of two or more girls. You’re going to need to work the group before you can get your own girl, otherwise your interaction will be short-lived.

You want to gain trust of the group first. Hopefully, it won’t take too much. Say something simple. “Hi, my name’s Darren. You guys look cool, so I thought I’d come say hi.” Shake everyone’shand, make a little small talk. With the friends you want to be pleasant and logical. To them, you seem like a “nice guy” – the kind of guy a girl would recommend as a boyfriend. With your girl, it’s best to be flirty and illogical – I’ll go into detail about this in a future article.

As soon as you’ve made a little small talk, you can move the girl away from her friends. You can do this a number of ways. You can say to her friends “Hey your friend is cool – do you mind if I borrow her for a minute?” Or, do it more subtly. Just by turning your body to separate you and your girl from the group, you’ve created your own little party.

Being in a nightclub, you can get physical with a girl much quicker, so take advantage. Put your arm around her, kiss her on the cheek, hug her and lift her up. You want her to understand that you’re a physical guy. You want her to know the feeling of your touch.

These are a few tips that you can use to approach girls in nightclubs. Talk to the whole group first, introduce yourself and make some small talk, isolate the girl from the group, and get physical as soon as possible.

Have fun, and I’ll talk to you next time!

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Meeting Girls During The Day

June 1, 2011 2 comments

A lot of guys think that meeting girls during the day is harder than meeting girls in a nightclub. At a club she’s out drinking, looking to be sociable. At the supermarket she just wants to buy groceries and get out, right?

Sometimes, that will be the case, however, mostly girls are more receptive during the day. You don’t have as much competition for her attention. There are no flashing lights, no loud music, not as many friends talking to her, she’s not drunk (hopefully). So you can probably have a better conversation with her during the day.

Many guys have theories about how to approach during the day. In my experience, it’s always best to go direct so the lady knows why you’re talking to her. “Hi – you’re so cute I just had to talk to you.” Give a little eye contact, and smile. Chances are she’ll be flattered and a little surprised, and probably want to talk to you.

Now the reason I do it this way – sometimes I would go indirect, talking about magazines or asking her opinion on something. Normally, the girl would answer my question and walk off. If you go direct, the girl knows what you’re there for straight away, and just by continuing to talk to you, she’s expressing interest. However, don’t be afraid to experiment and find what works best for you.

One problem with approaching during the day is that a lot of girls won’t have time to talk. Some of them are going to work, or have to meet someone, or whatever. A lot of the time, they just won’t have time to talk to you, and that’s fine. Don’t take it personally, just move on and keep having fun.

When you’ve got a conversation going, tell her you know a great place to get a coffee close by, and invite her along. You can go from not knowing a girl, to having a date with her, within five minutes – that’s the great thing about meeting girls during the day time.

All you need to do, is see a girl, say hi, tell her she’s so gorgeous you had to talk to her or you’d be kicking yourself the rest of the day. Tell her about what you’re doing, and take her for a drink. Easy!

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